1. People Who Caused Harm to the Deceased

Anyone who a:b:used, neglected, betrayed, or traumatized the deceased — emotionally, physically, or otherwise — should not be given the space to “pay respects.”

Their presence can feel hypocritical or even re-traumatizing to the family.

2. Toxic or Abusive Family Members

Relatives who are known to cause drama, manipulate, or have a history of ab:u:se toward your family.

Their presence can turn a solemn gathering into a source of distress.

3. Individuals Who Create Conflict

Those who might:

Start arguments

Bring up old family issues

Attempt to control or disrupt the service

Funerals should be peaceful, not a battleground for personal grudges.

4. People Attending for the Wrong Reasons

Anyone coming out of:

Curiosity

Gossip

Social appearances

Self-promotion

These people don’t bring comfort; they exploit grief for their own motives.